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Sex and Romance: Why a Woman's Attitude toward a Man Outweighs the Importance of her Physical Looks

It's embarrassing to admit this but it took a cheap pornographic video to reveal to me certain things about a woman's sexual desirability and how a woman's apparent attitude toward a man can grow on him and capture his love - rather than him being dazzled by the looks of a good looking woman he runs across if she's cold and distant toward him.

I saw a video of a young fellow, very thin and emaciated physically, mounting an obese woman, a bit older than him, and with a somewhat pretty face having missionary sex.

This woman was very enthusiastic, very spirited, feisty, and very much into this sex partner who was mounting her.  She was noisy, affectionate, passionately hugging and kissing him hungrily, literally making a meal out of the dude who was screwing her. She really was into it. And I could tell that her enthusiasm for the guy was infectious. He would get very energized and thrust more forcefully into her.  

I've seen porn movies before this one. Some of those had a plain-looking guy having sex with a very attractive woman. And in those, I'd see the woman display a neutral, almost bored attitude toward the guy. It would be lifeless.

Surely, at first sight, a very attractive, slim, or voluptuous woman would be very impressive for that man to behold. But after a while, if the woman displayed a distant attitude toward him, regardless of her initial ability to captivate him visually, would lose the interest of the guy.

By contrast, this larger woman, at first sight, would have difficulty in getting a man interested in her. He would probably have sexual relations with her if he were already into a dry sexual spell or sexually frustrated and he came across a very large woman who would signal her sexual availability to him in an obvious fashion.

It would be then in the sexual session itself if she were very much into him and display a strong affectionate attitude toward him as well as being sexually aroused that she would overpower him emotionally. He would eventually fall into her spell. She would enthrall him.

You know what?  It's happened to me. I've met women who were not much to look at but they were open and friendly to me and they grew on me after a while and had a stronger emotional effect on me than did those who were very physically attractive but cold and distant in their treatment of me.

My take on all of this is that a woman who shows a high level of interest in a guy will beat another woman to capture this guy's interest and attention.